My 100th post...

And unfortunately, it has to be depressing. 


Today I got into a big fight with this person:

Can you see the two things wrong with this? The 1st thing is the fact she is asking for the gifts to be sent to HER, not her ill cousin. 


The second thing is the fact she is telling people that they can save her cuz by sending her gifts. That's not right! She even said herself that her cousin will die! Instilling false hope in people is wrong, especially if this IS true and her cousin does end up dying. 




Also, a girl claiming to BE her cousin started coming on and leaving random comments about 'wanting to die' and 'hating her life'. But the page I looked at with symptoms said they could get CF, and doesn't CF include lack of motor skills? It also seemed pretty painful, so how was her cousin able to type?


So I posted saying I didn't believe, and instantly became the bad guy. 


My point it, I'm sick of these forums about family members/ you having a terminal illness. 98.9% of the time, they're fakes. So I have the right to doubt and put up the fact I don't believe without being hated right? 


Some people obviously don't think so. 


But I've earned my right to doubt. I've always searched for others on MSP, others who TRULY have cancer and understand what it's like. But due to forums like THIS, I can't trust any of them. I KNOW I'm not alone on here, but until forums like this stop, I won't be able to believe anyone else. 


The rare forums that ARE true keep being shot down by people who have become paranoid that every medical-related forum is a lie. And the ones that aren't true are just people looking for attention.


There is only ONE way to stop this. Stop the rude forums and the medical forums and the 'i'm richer than you forums'. Do you want to know what it is? 


DON'T REACT.  No matter WHAT they say, however believable it is, or however much you want to call them a liar. Hold your tongue, put NOTHING. Move past the forums, don't bother to click on them. All these forums are made to invoke reaction from you, weather it is support, anger or just plain doubt. Every post you put on feeds these attention seekers, giving them a victory. As soon as you post on their forums, they win. The only way to stop them is NOT TO POST AT ALL. 


If you want to spread a message for an illness, do it through a different way. Start a clothes thing or a pass around message or something like that. I know all of us are sick of these forums, but not reacting is the way to stop them. It simply starves the attention seekers, and it might take a while but eventually they will all die off from attention starvation and look for other means for attention. 


and to the mass of you who is asking, yes I do have cancer. 


Want proof? (okay...this is gonna be hard.) 




This was taken 1 or 2 months before I joined MSP, after I had come out of hospital with a serious infection.
Of course, I have hair now and look less pale, but still. 


**Just a note** This took A LOT for me to put up. So I don't expect any more doubters. That'll just make me sad :(


On a posative note, HAPPY 100TH POST!!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAYYY :3


Please watch my shorties to celebrate!! 


(Bob Blog will be updated later.)